Message from the Stars - Tametryo Brown
VENUS: Sexuality in the Signs
By Tametryo Brown
Oct 25, 2013 - 1:33:47 AM

The planet Venus is known in astrology as the planet of love, pleasure, good things in life, beauty, fairness and romance, marriage and money. Most people you see with a beautiful face or body have a well placed Venus in their chart. This is where the term “women come from Venus” derived from, because these are the things woman tend to focus on.

Venus is the ruler of The Zodiac sign TAURUS and LIBRA. Ever notice how most TAURUS love pleasure, good things in life, love money and are naturally beautiful? Or how a LIBRA just doesn’t like being without a relationship, or how he/she wants to be in a committed relationship always, want fairness, romance and happen to be very pleasing to the eye? Well you can blame Venus for that.

In each sign Venus functions differently for both men and women. Venus in a woman’s chart can tell what kind of lover she is, and how she flirts. In a man’s chart, it shows what kind of woman he is attracted to. When in Retrograde, Venus directs those feelings inwards towards the self, and love may come later on in life. That, my friend, is a topic for another day.

*Take in mind that these are not your SUN signs as discussed in the previous column. Please INSERT your info above to find out what you VENUS is. Fill out the info and follow the prompts.  Once you have the Sign, of your Venus, then read below:

VENUS IN THE SIGN

Venus in ARIES: You are spontaneous and direct with how you approach love. There is no beating around the bush with you. You like your love life spicy and hot! You are the ones who see nothing wrong with a one night stand and getting married in haste. You always need a little bit of drama in your love life to keep it sort of interesting.  You are a born mover and shaker and when it comes to making money you go all out for it. Regardless if there are some risk involved. You say exactly what you think and you are territorial and possessive. You are the manipulators of your relationship. When you want something bad, your want becomes a need. If you are a guy you like the independent woman who is hard to get.  You like your freedom so you need a woman who is going to give you a little breathing room. You like arguing and making up. The thought of the makeup sex afterwards is enough to send you swimming in ecstasy.  You like ruff sex and your head and face is your erogenous zone (the part that turns you on when touched). You are prone to fall in and out of love fast growing up. You are known for short lived crushes. If any one perusing you is smart, they would play hard to get because when you have conquered, you move on because you need that friction. Remember, if this is a lady, then she will have lots of platonic (bed buddies) guy friends. Some celebrities with Venus in Aries include Marilyn Monroe, Audrey Hepburn, Shakira, Rihanna, Lady Gaga, Mariah Carey, Jennifer Aniston, Robert Downey Jr., and George Clooney.

Venus IN TAURUS: Here Venus is in its own sign. Venus in Taurus loves physical beauty, luxurious surroundings, soft and silky clothing and long massages with scented oils by candle light. As you can see they love the finer things in life. They are turned on by their five senses. They never rush into a relationship at all. In fact, don’t try to rush a Venus in Taurus into love, they will be out the door in a flash. These are the lovers who have a pinch of gold digger dust in their genes. They can be very vain about their appearance as well. On the good side, when they are in a relationship, they are very affectionate and have the need to want to hold hands and hug every so often.  Just make sure you have enough money for food and fast food at that. These are the ones that love good food. They are stable and when they are in love they stay there. These are the marrying type. In a man’s chart he like a woman to be more lady like with class. That dresses very elegant. Sexually it takes a while to turn a woman on with this placement so lots of foreplay is needed. It is said that there is a woman that have not had an orgasm in her life time, then she must have Venus in Taurus. Some celebrities with Venus in TAURUS include Juliette Binoche, Chaka KhanSarah, Jane Morris,  Jessica Alba,  Grace Jones, Jessica Lange, Alanis Morissette, Princess Diana, Michele Lee.

Venus in GEMINI: These lovers are very communicative in their relationships. They can also be very fickle as well. They love to talk and laugh with their partners. They have a way with words. They normally make money dealing with their hands. They don’t like being tied down in regular relationships. The minute it becomes routine they split. These lovers are quick on their mouth and can make you laugh in any situation. They get bored fast as well. They need lots of intellectual stimulation to stay in a relationship. So if you are someone that is the talking type please move on the next person. They can be the habitual flirt known to mankind. Don’t be upset and jealous, this will only drive them away because they don’t like heavy relationships.  Venus in Gemini presents this person the feeling of having to experiment in love. They are the kind that can carry on two relationships at the same time without any trouble at all. They are also inclined to have same sex relationships at least once. (Especially the women) these are the free spirited. When they do commit doe, they can be very loyal to the one they love. Men with this placement love a woman that speaks her mind, is very smart and can talk him to death. When making love to these persons make sure you have something on like music or something moving. They are the screamers and talkers in bed. When making love to these people, kiss them deeply for this pacifies their passion and it turns them on even more. If you want to lure these people you will have to be able to talk them into bed. They love to talk about sex on the phone. Their erogenous zone is their mind so they love when you stimulate their thoughts. Just remember that they love variety so you might not be the only one doing this. Aural sex is their favourite thing giving and receiving.  If you are lucky enough you will get a treat for they will want to change positions almost chance they get. Some celebrities with Venus in GEMINI include: Jennifer Lopez, Uma Thurman,  Megan Fox,  Heidi Klum,  Courtney Love, Tupac Shakur,  Jessica Simpson, Mike Tyson and Malcolm X

Venus in CANCER: To these people food is love. Here you can find some of the most moody people when they are in love. They can be very nurturing and loving and kind. They can also be the ones that want to give you the silent treatment when you have done something wrong. Try avoiding asking what is wrong, they won’t tell you. Instead, they would like for you to intuit what is wrong. They love a good laugh and can talk about their family all day long. Don’t ever talk about their personalities. They are super sensitive and can cry over emotional stuff very easily. The men with this placement love for their women to be dressed in feminine clothing. They will cook, clean, wash and scrub for you. Mothering is what they do best! They are basically insecure and afraid of rejection. Most men with Venus in Cancer are attracted to women with large breasts. Most of the women enjoy their breasts gently kissed, and fondled. Venus in Cancer likes to be told how much you love them because they are very insecure.  Never forget their birthdays or anything important or you won’t live that down. And again, never ever talk about their family even when they are complaining about them. Just nod and shake, nod and shake. The women with this placement don’t mind doing the domestic stuff. She will come off as someone that loves to stay in the home. They make very good cooks and are looking for that special someone to spend their whole life with. Treat this one with care. If not, you will be mopping up a bucket of tears. Some celebrities with Venus in CANCER include: Barack Obama, Angelina Jolie, Keanu Reeves, Cameron Diaz, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Halle Berry, Ben Affleck, Russell Brand, Khloe Kardashian, Lenny Kravitz

Venus in Leo: Venus in Leo person is very romantic. They love to feel like royal in your presence. They can be very dramatic when in love. These are the people who always brag about their lovers. They need to feel proud of the person they are out with, as well as respect who they are. They like giving the impression that they have got many admirers, and often they do. They need a certain amount of attention, but it's got to be genuine. They thrive in relationships that have an epic feel, like they’re stars in a romantic drama. They are expressive in the bedroom, as long as there's a feeling of Big Love between them and their lover, and they feel special. You can go a long way with them if you just shower them with compliments. It has to be genuine doe. They know a phoney when they hear one. Their erogenous zone is the back of the neck and the spine. Breathing on their neck and touching their back get really hot. They can make money in areas of Drama and showing off themselves. They must always have your full attention. They cannot tolerate being second in your life or your putting the needs of others [even family] before them. Let them know how much you love them and enjoy them, even if they don't seem real interested in you. Never be cheap or stingy when giving them gifts. They enjoy massages. Dote on them and love them. Venus in Leo people are romantic. Always be at your best in the way of proper dress, good manners, and actions when you are with other people, as Venus in Leo people need to take pride in their partners. Never do anything disgraceful or anything that would make them look bad or you will lose them. Some celebrities with Venus in CANCER include:  Michael Jackson, Madonna, Tom Cruise, Pamela Anderson, Whitney Houston, Lindsay Lohan, George W. Bush, Jason Statham, and 50 Cent

Venus in VIRGO: Always be clean! Always be freshly bathed before you have sex with these people. Brush your teeth, and make sure to use decent mouthwash! Smell freshly clean, and by this, don't use tons of perfume or cologne. Just don't ever smell bad or lack hygiene, which is a total turn off to them. Venus in Virgo people usually single one person out and will concentrate on that one person whether they are available or not. The women come off as being very lady like. They are the more traditional type. These people normally don't date just for fun, but only if sincerely interested. They can be a little bit stingy when it comes to money matters, that is because they worry about it being there for them later on. Some have unusual fetishes and are attracted to lovers with poor health or physical problems. Their fantasies have intricate details. Sex is seen as essential for physical health. They are very selective in regards to who they give their love. Emotional security is important for their relationships. They are not are not very romantic but they are submissive. They show love in the way of doing things for you, taking care of your needs and in other practical ways. It is important to have good manners. They can be very picky with who they fall in love with. So these are the friends that come up with the most ridiculous excuse not to like that hot guy or that sexy lady. In the bed you have to be clean. They are the type that are the pleasers in bed. Virgo being the sign of service, they would go all out when pleasing you. Their erogenous zone is the stomach. So touching and kissing this area will lead to something more. Some celebrities with Venus in CANCER include:  Julia Roberts, Sean Penn, Kim Kardashian, Eminem, Robert de Niro, Gwen Stefani, Antonio Banderas, Patrick Swayze, Pink,  Lil Wayne, Vin Diesel, and Simon Cowell.

Venus in LIBRA: People who have Venus in Libra are loving and romantic people. They are graceful and refined in public. They are well mannered. They don’t get loud, interrupt or be rude at all. They always see themselves in relationships and can’t stand the thought of being alone. They feel incomplete without a lover to call their own. They are very considerate lovers, putting their lovers' needs above their own and they usually treat their partners very well. Never leave them out of any activity or anything else, they need to be a part and to do everything together. Leaving them out only will make them feel unwanted and rejected. They usually bend over backwards in a relationship to keep it going. Compromise is their middle name. If a woman or man has this placement they are normally blessed with good looks. The men like their women to act like a perfect lady. The strong independent type of woman who is completely self-sufficient is a turn off to them. Both sexes take pride in their personal appearance and will go to great lengths to look good. Both sexes enjoy having their buttocks caressed and spanked. Venus in Libra is romantic in the extreme. A lover's sexual pleasure is of the utmost importance to them. They are overly concerned whether you have a good orgasm and enjoy sex with them. Some celebrities with Venus in LIBRA include:   Shania Twain, Charles, Prince of Wales, Matthew McConaughey, Emma Stone, Will Smith, Beyonce Knowles, Kobe Bryant,  Ciara, and Jada Pinkett Smith.

Venus in SCORPIO: In the sexual sign of Scorpio, Venus is brimming with sexual energy. These are the people who don’t go half way into love. It is all or nothing with these folks. They can be very secretive about their love life. These people can have some pretty nasty fetishes. They are strongly sexual, possessive and jealous. They enjoy having sex in the nude. They can go for a long time between affairs, as they take love very seriously and it is all or nothing with them. They can be loners. Never talk about their sex life, their secrets, or their personal lives to others; this will really turn them off. They are secretive by nature and any betrayal of trust is unforgivable. Loyalty is of exceptional importance to them and they mate for life. Their feelings run deep, they desire the perfect soul mate; a soul to soul deep, intense love relationship, especially if the chart has other water signs to back this up. They can become obsessed with a lover. They are prone to have sex on the first date as well. Not because they are easy to get, but because they want to know if that person that they are having sex with is in fact their soul mate. They want a soul connection.  They love to have control in their relationships. They need a person with a strong sex drive so don’t come at them if you are not ready in bed. They love to seduce their mate. Both sexes enjoy oral sex. The genitals are the erogenous zones and special attention to these will get you everywhere with one who has Venus in Scorpio. Become an adept at oral sex and you can be sure to own them. Take the Scorpio man into the shower and give him a soap job. They love the water and sexual massage. Venus in Scorpio is obsessive, especially in love. Their jealousy can be very dangerous, even deadly. They may successfully hide their jealousy. Some celebrities with Venus in SCORPIO include: Demi Moore, Katie Holmes, Charles Manson, Jay-Ted Bundy, Denzel Washington, Tiger Woods and Nelly Furtado

 
Venus in SAGITTARIUS: Venus is Sagittarius people are very happy go lucky  lovers.  They are very exciting to be around and love make you laugh. Fun is how they see love. They love friendship in love. So they would release any heavy relationship to have a friend that they can have sex with. They are very philosophical when it comes to their relationships.  Spontaneous is a word that can best describe them. They also are fond of sports and you can find them either playing a sport or one of those head strong fans of the sport.  They have a roaming eye so they don’t ever just see themselves with one person. They are the natural flirts just like Venus in Gemini, but if you show too much jealousy they will run away. These people prefer sex in the outdoors.  Don’t try to keep them doing the same things sexually because you will lose them to a more fun and exploring partner. These are the ones that don’t like to beat around the bush when it comes to love. They say exactly how they feel about you right then and there. They can be a bit overwhelming to the more formal type.  Their beliefs are important to them so if you knock what they believe this can also make way for them to ease their way out of your life. They normally attract foreign people to them as lovers in many cases.  Love for religion, philosophy, sports and different foreign culture is what will keep them wanting to spend more time with you. Their erogenous zone is the inner thigh. Rub and massage these areas will cause a volcanic eruption down there.  All in all you have a fun loving, spontaneous, thrill seeking sexual being. Some celebrities with Venus in SAGITTARIUS include: Christina Aguilera, Alyssa Milano, Katy Perry, Tina Turner, Jimi Hendrix, Nicki Minaj, Kim Basinger, Aaliyah, Whoopi Goldberg, Raven-Symoné, Samuel L. Jackson, and LL Cool J.

Venus in CAPRICORN: Venus in Capricorn people are mostly very shy and don’t really like being rejected. Everyone does, but these people will not make a move because they fear it so much they hold it in. They are traditional when it comes to relationship. They take relationship very seriously. More like a business!  It's likely that they approach them like business partnerships. There's got to be a sense that the person is worth investing in, and that it'll grow over time. They  want to surround themselves with dependable people. They are fairly discriminating, and know when they have found a well-rounded person that can be their rock. When dating, they probably ask questions about career first, sussing out the level of ambition. They want to join with someone that they can build an empire with. They are not likely to be into one-night stands, and will see red flags with players, or those that are all flash and no substance. They are a bit old-fashioned, with a dream to settle down and create something that lasts. It takes a while before they open up in love, and reveal an earthy sensuality that has staying power. Don't show physical affection in public, they don't like it. Never grab them in front of business associates or social acquaintances, but in private, don't keep your hands off of them. Personal power and status turn them on big time. They may try to buy you in some way. These people are cautious, practical and traditional in their love relationships. They are not very quick to make a commitment.

They may appear to be uninterested, but chances are that they are really very shy. Capricorn is the sign of endurance and most of the men have tremendous staying power. Venus in Capricorn is persistent and when they are interested in you, they will never give up pursuing you until they have won you over. Security is very important to them in their relationships. Some can tend towards being dominant and sadistic and to certain perversions where sex is concerned. Any woman who teases a Venus in Capricorn man is likely to get raped. Some celebrities with Venus in SAGITTARIUS include: Britney Spears, Brad Pitt, Justin Timberlake, Steve Jobs, Tyra Banks, Miley Cyrus, Cindy Crawford,  Jim Carrey, Michael Jordan, Seal ,

Venus in AQUARIUS: These are the ones who need a lot of space in a relationship. They can go day and weeks without really seeing the one they love. They go after the weirdest looking person they can find, once that person can keep the intellectually stimulated. When you a very tall beautiful woman with the shortest  guy who looks like he needs a makeover, then there is a chance that this person have Venus in AQUARIUS. Don’t try to show public affection with these type, they hate it. (More than Venus Capricorn)They normally attract people that are already taken up or married. Sometimes these are the ones that go after a next person’s wife and husband.  They come alive in social situations  and feel better showing a group of people love than just channelling that energy just to one person. They make money in ways that are different than most people and love doing things very unique. They can have a long distant relationship going on and not really feel the need to badger their lover over time spent. They are into really advanced stuff. They love experimenting with sex so try to keep it interesting. They also can be the type that can have same sex relationships. Anything out of the normal seems to strike their fancy. They can go as far as having Orgies to as extreme as having web cam sex. Some celebrities with Venus in Aquarius  include: Nicolas Cage, Yoko Ono, Glenn Close, Elton John, James Joyce, Sharon Stone, Bruce Willis, Emily Watson, Cybill Shepard, Nick Nolte, Carmen Miranda, Ricky Martin, Gary Oldman, Paris Hilton, Oprah Winfrey, Taylor Swift, Mel Gibson, Ashton Kutcher, Nicolas Cage, Ellen Degeneres , Elton John

Venus in PISCES:  These people have a romantic streak that can put any love novel to rest! Romantic and loving and compassionate are their traits. Usually they fall for the wrong kind of lovers. They have the need to either be rescued or to be the rescuing their partner. They have a dreamy sense to them. You can find them fantasizing about their dream lover. This is the best place for Venus to be in. It gives this person the gift of unconditional love. One day this person can wake up and be in love. Just by a single thought. They are very sentimental  but they also are easily wounded. They are sensitive, and can adapt to the moods of others, often losing themselves in the process. It's important for them to learn the art of self-protection, so they are not tossed about in a sea of emotion. It's also hard for them to set personal boundaries, at times, and they are likely long to merge with their lover. That's why it can take awhile for them to get over hurts and disappointments when things go wrong. For them, love can be a mystical experience with the right person. They are impressionable, so it's important to learn to weed out those that would take advantage of their sensitive and yielding nature. they tend to fall in love at first sight, and they might not see the red flags passing in front of their face. Even if someone treats them badly, they are liable to hold onto the connection, choosing to see through rose-colored glasses. These lovers are the ones that can make your sexual dreams come true. Any fantasy you have will be satisfied by a person with Venus in Pisces. With that being said, they always have this dream person in their head so they might be very fickle as well especially if you don’t meet their dream lover status. You might find yourself saying about a Venus in Pisces “Wow! There is something about this person that is so attractive but I just can’t put my finger on it.” This is because they have an outer worldly appeal to them. Some celebrities with Venus in Pisces  include:  Michelle Obama, Martin Luther King, Justin Bieber, Céline Dion, Penélope Cruz, Michelle Pfeiffer, John Travolta, Victoria Beckham, Kelly Clarkson, Alicia Keys, Drew Barrymore, Kourtney Kardashian, Hugh Hefner, Diana Ross,

This concludes Venus in all of the signs. Remember that to find out what sign your Venus is in, you have to have a professional natal chart drawn. You can find out this information by sending a message to my Facebook.com/stardating. You can also send an email to stardatesbh@gmail.com. 

Next week we will do MARS SEXUALITY IN THE SIGNS.  Until next time, this is your MESSAGE FROM THE STARS. I am Tametryo Brown, your astrologist.


Tametryo Brown has been studying Astrology for over 10 years. His company Stardates Global is dedicated to helping people find their soul mates through self discovery and the science of astrology. He runs a Stardating company in Nassau, Bahamas. His knowledge of astrology and human personalities go beyond his age. His scientific predictions have touched the lives of many across his homeland and abroad. Tametyro is also a certified hypnotherapist from the Hypnosis Medical Institution/ American Hypnosis Association (HMI/AHA) where he still continues to further his studies in hypnosis.  He has helped many clients realize  their life's purpose. He can be reached stardatesbh@gmail.com  Phone: 1-242-466-6613