
Lamarque Drew was the very first person to see and hold his baby girl Lamiea. She was born at home while he was talked through the delivery by a Doctors Hospital nurse via telephone on Valentine’s morning.
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Nassau, Bahamas -
Lamarque Drew gave his wife, Lynieka
an extra special and completely unexpected Valentine’s Day gift this
year – he delivered their baby girl.
Not due until March 6th, baby Lamiea
had plans of her own and surprised the couple by coming early and fast
in their bathroom.
Lynieka woke up around 3am on February
14th in some pain and after a while, decided it was time to shower and
head to the hospital.
“We weren’t nervous or panicking
yet because with her first pregnancy it took about seven hours before
the baby came,” explains Lamarque.
Even when Lynieka’s water broke when
she went in to the bathroom, the couple still maintained a sense of
calm. Their 11-year-old son Lamarque Jr was being watched by his grandmother
and when Lynieka felt the baby pushing despite her best efforts, they
called for an ambulance.
They then called Doctors Hospital to
let them know they’d be coming in a few weeks
early. As fate would have it,
the person who answered the phone was someone the couple had gotten
to know during the pregnancy and so Lamarque instantly felt comfort
knowing they were in good hands.
The Doctors Hospital midwife decided
to stay on the phone with the Drews until the ambulance arrived, but
she ended up playing a much bigger role in their baby’s birth.
While he was talking to the nurse,
Lynieka told him ‘I feel the baby’s head!”
The calm, knowledgeable nurse on the
phone advised the still not panicked husband
To encourage his wife keep up the controlled
breathing she had been taught in Lamaze classes and told him to take
a look.
“I said whoa, I see the head, and
I don’t know what made me do it, but something told me to stick my
hands out,” he recalls.
At that moment, baby Lamiea slid out
into her shocked father’s waiting arms.
“I was still on the phone saying
‘I have the baby in my hands,’ and on the other end she asked if
I was sure. Then I started to panic because she wasn’t breathing.
You watch on tv and the baby should be crying,” he now laughs.
“She said ‘relax, relax, keep calm,’”
and instructed him to get some clean towels, wipe the mucus out of the
newborn’s mouth and nose and at that moment the baby started crying.

Lynieka Drew and baby Lamiea, who was born at home on Valentine’s Day, pose for a photo with Daddy Lamarque Drew who delivered his daughter while a Doctors Hospital nurse talked him through the process, big brother Lamarque and Doctors Hospital Patient Relations Officer Tabitha Butler
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The Doctors Hospital nurse then told
Lamarque to have Lynieka lie down and place the baby on her chest, swaddle
her in another towel and tilt her head to the side so she would be able
to breathe.
All this happened before the ambulance
was able to arrive at the couple’s home.
“All that was going through my mind
was I wanted the baby to be okay,” says
Lynieka who said things happened so
fast she didn’t have time to be scared about what was happening.
“I wasn’t doing anything really.
He did all the work,” she says of her husband whose friends, upon
learning of his role in his daughter’s birth, started calling him
‘Dr
Drew.’
“It was so important to have someone
on the phone at Doctors Hospital keep me calm and talk me through everything,”
says Lamarque, adding “they don’t teach you how to deliver a baby
in Lamaze class.”
“When you think about all that could
have happened or gone wrong, it really seems surreal. If she had come
out a split second earlier before I put my hands there she could have
fallen on the floor or if I hadn’t gotten someone on the phone at
Doctors to walk me through it, I just wonder,” he adds.
Doctors Hospital’s Vice President
of Patient Care Services Dorcena Nixon is proud of her team’s ability
to provide top quality healthcare regardless of the circumstances.
“At Doctors Hospital we pride ourselves
on being a leader in healthcare, but it’s extremely rewarding to see
how our Associates are able to step up to the plate and help patients
and their families even when they find themselves in such unusual circumstances,”
she says.
Lamarque, a Relationship Officer with
Scotiabank commended Doctors Hospital for the treatment they received
at every stage of their baby’s birth.
“I have to say you have wonderful
staff here. I like how you check around the clock on the patients. It’s
been a wonderful experience. Even when we came to register, it wasn’t
a hard process. Customer service is everything and I must say it’s
been wonderful for us. The service here is amazing,” he says.
Knowing that his wife and new baby
are fine, he now jokes that Lamiea was born early and in a hurry because
she heard his voice and couldn’t wait to meet him.
There is another theory at play, though.
Lynieka believes baby Lamiea just wanted to add to a family tradition.
She was born on Valentine’s Day and her older brother’s birthday
is Christmas Day.