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Home Abusers
By Pastor Allen
Oct 25, 2010 - 7:25:21 PM

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Despite all of the revelation that’s circulating throughout the church today; it’s of the utmost importance that we understand this fact / principle which is:  The church as we know it, will and can only be as strong and as affective as the families that makes up the church

(1) Strong family values, morals and principles will result in a strong church,
(2) Weak family values, morals and principle will result in a weak church

Yeshua Messiah likens the church to a bride (a wife) of which He will present to Himself without spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.  He loves the church so much in that He gave His life for her, in this same way husbands ought to love their wives.

It is a disgrace and most certainly not of Yahweh to know there are men (worst of all) men that claim to have accepted Yeshua Messiah as the Lord and Savior who are abusing their wives in any form or fashion.

This crafty deception of the enemy have gotten the better part of many church leaders today; as they’re walking away from their marriages for the sake of the ministry or the so-called revelation they’ve received; of which their wives don’t understand and are viewed as a hindrance.

This tactic is just another form of a family / home abuser; for a man’s first ministry is to his family and not the church. 

Any man that’s serving in church leadership (that’s from the pulpit to the door) and does not treats, loves his wife as the Messiah  loves the church or has walked out / away from his marriage should immediately be sat down.

Watch this!

As a man, if I’m under a church leader that’s abusive to his wife or may have walked away from his marriage; what kind or sound council can my leader give if I am having marital problems and trying to save my marriage; bearing in mind that a leader leads by example ?

The church that we see today is not the true church of Yeshua Messiah, that will usher in His glory. What we’ve got today are many churches with various forms of Godliness that are void of His power.
Somehow, somewhere along the road of gathering their so-called revelations and anointing many of today’s church leaders / home abusers have over looked the fact that God is the God of order, and He does everything decently and in order. 

So, no matter how long this type of church leadership has been in ministry, and how well they can preach or quote scriptures; if they’ve walked away from their marriages or are abusing their wives in any form they ought to be sat down.

Wives! “If you’ve got a husband that’s abusive yet claims to love the Lord, (he) is an agent of the devil who is filled of religion” 

This is why he can go to church and preaches or teaches the word of God, plays an instrument in the church, always reading his bible, serves as a deacon or walk closely with his Bishop or Pastor; or may even be a Bishop, Apostle, Pastor, etc; and after which he can come home and be a thorn in the side of the family.

Men who operates in this manner needs deliverance from that ancient abusive spirit that has been in their family linage for generations; which is now at work in their lives and as far as they can tell, nothing is wrong with them because God uses them to preach and teach His word.

Watch this !

Malachi.2:13. And this have ye done again, covering the altar of the LORD with tears, with weeping, and with crying out, insomuch that he regardeth not the offering any more, or receiveth it with good will at your hand.

: 14.  Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant.

: 15.  And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.

Most men who are abusive (physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially and verbally) to their wives can’t stand correction.

The very lowest kind or form of a man is the one that hits a woman; this (PUNK) is not a real man, and he will find every excuse possible to discredit and refute any person who speaks out against his behavior.

Sad, but true some of these men are in the church; and after counseling if their behavior remains; these men needs to be exposed and brought to shame.

NO man has the rights to hit a woman !  NO woman should be subject to such ungodly treatment; I don’t care what anybody says, unless that man is  delivered from that spirit things will never get better. He may shed a few crocodile tears and say that he loves you and would do better, but to the contrary; because if they could have done better this sort of treatment would have never begun.

Hat off to all the REAL MEN throughout the length and breath of the Bahamas who treats and love their wives as the Messiah Christ loves the church.

Prov.18:22. Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.

For questions or comments contact us via E-mail:pastormallen@yahoo.com or kmfci@live.com or Ph. 1-242- 441-2021
          
Pastors Matthew & Brendalee Allen
Kingdom Minded Fellowship Center Int’l

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