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I Love You!
By Pastor Allen
Feb 9, 2012 - 1:28:01 PM

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As we celebrate Valentine’s Day the giving of flowers, chocolates, cards and dining out are all good expressions of saying “I love you” but outside of the traditional / annual Valentine’s Day expressions how does your daily actions show what you’re now saying?

When the finances are out of whack; all the bills are overdue, creditors are consistently calling and other issues arises do you say “Baby, I love you we’re gonna be alright”  Can I tell you that it’s during challenging times that true love is mostly tested and tried?  Have you ever heard the saying “When the money gets funny, the honey gets funny”

Flat out ignorance and religious stupidity would have many to live a life of lies and pretense; but when a husband and wife can come together in unity, one mind and one spirit in confronting life’s challenges; this helps in fostering an atmosphere / environment for the powerful love which initially brought them together. The romancing of a wife by her husband should be a daily thing along with the giving of flowers, chocolates and cards, etc; and not just a Feb 14th, exercise.
Far too often we partake in things out of tradition and not knowing its origin and meanings. 

What do you know about Saint Valentine’s Day?   Or does it really matter to you?

The Story behind St. Valentines Day is a fascinating one. Although February 14th is celebrated as a lovers' holiday today, with the giving of candy, flowers, Valentine's Day card and other gifts between couples in love, it originated as a tribute to St. Valentine, a Catholic bishop.   As early as the fourth century B.C., the Romans engaged in an annual young man's rite of passage to the God Lupercus. It's earliest origin was the Roman festival Lupercalia, observed on Feb. 15. Lupercalia celebrated the coming of spring on the Roman calendar. Lupercalia became a celebration intended to ensure the fertility of flocks, fields and people.

The names of the teenage women were placed in a box and drawn at random by adolescent men; thus, a man was assigned a woman companion (a sexual partner) for the duration of the year, after which another lottery was staged. After eight hundred years of this cruel practice, the early church fathers sought to end this practice.  In an effort to do away with the pagan festival, Pope Gelasius ordered a slight change in the lottery. Instead of the names of young women, the box would contain the names of saints. Both men and women were allowed to draw from the box, and the game was to emulate the ways of the saint they drew during the rest of the year. Needless to say, many of the young Roman men were not too pleased with the rule changes.

Instead of the pagan god Lupercus, the Church looked for a suitable patron saint of love to take his place. They found an appropriate choice in Valentine, who, in 270 AD had been beheaded by Emperor Claudius.  According to church tradition, St. Valentine was a priest near Rome. At that time the Roman Emperor, Claudius II, had issued an edict forbidding marriage. Claudius had determined that married men made poor soldiers because they were emotionally attached to their families. So he banned marriage from his empire.

Valentine, a bishop, seeing the trauma of young lovers, met with them in a secret place, and joined them in the sacrament of matrimony. When Claudius found out about this "friend of lovers," Valentine was thrown in jail and condemned to death.   While Valentine was in prison awaiting his fate, he befriended his jailer, Asterius, who had a blind daughter. Asterius' daughter befriended the kind priest by bringing food and messages to him. Valentine fell in love with the jailer's daughter. Asterius requested that he heal his daughter. Through his faith he miraculously restored the sight of Asterius' daughter and converted the two of them to Christianity.

After some time in prison the priest was ordered to appear before the Emperor. The emperor, impressed with the young priest's dignity and conviction, first tried to convert him to paganism to save him from certain execution. But Valentine reversed the strategy, trying instead to convert Claudius. He failed. Just before his execution, he asked for pen and paper from his jailor, and signed a farewell message to the jailer's daughter and signed it, "From Your Valentine." He was stoned and beheaded on February 24, 270 AD.   Valentine became a Patron Saint, and spiritual overseer of the annual festival. Although the lottery for women had been banned by the church, the mid-February holiday in commemoration of St. Valentine, involved young Romans offering women they admired and wished to court, handwritten greetings of affection on February 14th.

Happy Valentine’s Day:
Eph.5: 25.   Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
For questions and comments contact us via E-mails:pastormallen@yahoo.com or kmfci@live.com or Ph.242-441-2023
Pastor Matthew & Brendalee Allen
Kingdom Minded Fellowship Center Int’l

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